Sexual styles meme

[altivo]

OK, I did it since darkhorseman, corelog, hgryphon, and danjidraconid all did it too. I got different results though.

TYPE N You scored 83 imagination, 75 confidence, 25 dominance, and 62 generosity!

You are a KINKY, CONFIDENT, SUBMISSIVE lover who prefers to GIVE. This means that: You like relatively kinky sex, and you have the great imagination that will always keep your partner guessing and excited! There's no getting bored with you around, you could never settle for dull sex, you want something fun and new all the time. You aren't afraid to try out anything you hear about. You might just be an intelligent lover who needs to be mentally engaged, or perhaps you have some dirty dark secret kinky desires, but either way, you're never boring. You are pretty confident in bed. This means that you know you can please your lover. Maybe you've read a lot of sex manuals, or have the experience from previous lovers, or just tend to be skilled at whatever you get your hands on, but you're good and you know it. You can really get results and know that you have pure talent, so you won't be hiding away shy, pretending to be all innocent. Your partners love your naughty self assurance, you don't hesitate and this makes you a sensational lover. You tend to be submissive in bed, so you prefer to go along with what your lover likes rather than your own plans. You might like being ordered around and acting out a slave/master fantasy, or perhaps you just get turned on by being helpless and unable to move. Or maybe it's as simple as you lacking courage so prefering firm instructions in bed to make sure you are doing things right. Either way, you won't be dominating your lover anytime soon, and might prefer the missionary position to any others. You prefer to give than recieve. This makes you a very unselfish lover, devoted to the needs of your partner rather than your own. You get your pleasure from seeing them get theirs, you are a model sex partner. I'm sure plenty of people would love to have someone like you in bed with them! Remember though that if your partner gets pleasure from returning the favour it's okay to let them, they might love giving as much as you do! WE SUGGEST YOU: Get crazy with the kissing. It sounds basic, but perhaps with all your wonderful kinky antics and games, you have forgotten how good it can feel just to kiss someone all over, and have the same done to you! Practise with different kissing styles, kiss your lover in places you've never kissed them before. Kiss to tickle, kiss to seduce, kiss for hours, or kiss when you know you can't go any furthur with it, like when you have to be at work soon. Rediscover kissing.

My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 99% on imagination You scored higher than 99% on confidence You scored higher than 99% on dominance You scored higher than 99% on generosity

Link: The What's your sexual style? Test written by lu-mina on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

Comments

[cabcat.livejournal.com]

Crikey McBlimey O.O

[calydor.livejournal.com]

*tries to act surprised*

Why, I would never have guessed! Well, yes, actually I would. The only point in this I don't quite see fitting you is the kinky part, but of course, if the test takes into account gay and furry, that could give some extra points in that department. Other than that ... No. Not surprised.

[altivo.livejournal.com]

The test author considers anything other than slam bam missionary position hetero to be kinky, obviously. No surprise. These things are usually written by fairly unimaginative teenagers. Online TS with animal roles would certainly be "kinky" to them.

[avon-deer.livejournal.com]

I must take this meme right now. :)

[hellmutt.livejournal.com]

I gottt... "You are a TRADITIONAL, SHY, DOMINANT lover who prefers to GIVE"
No, I'm egalitarian, dammit. ;)

[altivo.livejournal.com]

I'm surprised you'd even go through all those loaded questions. It doesn't let you come out sitting on a fence. Each of those four qualities will come out one way or the other, so you have to look at the numbers. The "dominance" score, for instance, could be close to even but if you came out just one point more than half (probably not possible, it's too coarse for that) it would call you DOMINANT. ;p

About half the questions I wanted to say "none of the above" to.

[hellmutt.livejournal.com]

Agreed on all cownts. Bah. :)

Hehe

[favouritewindow.livejournal.com]

Don't know how accurate this is considering my lovers are probably not the "type" that the author had in mind, but here's the result anyway ... :P

TYPE N You scored 75 imagination, 50 confidence, 33 dominance, and 83 generosity!

You are a KINKY, CONFIDENT, SUBMISSIVE lover who prefers to GIVE. This means that: [...] (all of this was basically identical to the text in your result, so I'll cut it here) WE SUGGEST YOU: Get crazy with the kissing. It sounds basic, but perhaps with all your wonderful kinky antics and games, you have forgotten how good it can feel just to kiss someone all over, and have the same done to you! Practise with different kissing styles, kiss your lover in places you've never kissed them before. Kiss to tickle, kiss to seduce, kiss for hours, or kiss when you know you can't go any furthur with it, like when you have to be at work soon. Rediscover kissing.

My test tracked 4 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender: You scored higher than 99% on imagination You scored higher than 99% on confidence You scored higher than 99% on dominance You scored higher than 99% on generosity

Link: The What's your sexual style? Test written by lu-mina on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

Re: Hehe

[altivo.livejournal.com]

It's a pretty sloppy test, like most of those things. The author lacked considerably in the imagination department. Even so, I think those scores probably fit you fairly well. They're consistent with what I know, at least. :) They also indicate the similarities between us that I've certainly noticed.

[duraji-synth.livejournal.com]

Actually, I'm not surprised. This is how I pictured you.

And despite what the others see, I understand how you would be considered kinky. Living plushies is rather kinky, you know. :)

[altivo.livejournal.com]

From the point of view of the typical quiz author, reading books is kinky. Let alone being a furry or being gay. ;p

[songcoyote.livejournal.com]

Je suis... Type N as well! Quelle surprise!

Although I'm quite fascinated with kissing and practice regularly ;)

Light and laughter,
SongCoyote

[altivo.livejournal.com]

I'd have guessed at a P for you, but N is "nice" too. :)

[songcoyote.livejournal.com]

Well, as others have said, many of the answers really didn't take into account the scope of how I live, so perhaps I would have boiled down to a P if I had answered some of the dodgier ones differently.

Not that I know what a P is, anyway :)

Light and laughter,
SongCoyote

[altivo.livejournal.com]

As near as I can tell, P is the same as N except you score higher in dominance. While I'm aware that you can go both ways in that respect, you always seem to me to be the one in control. Then again, since I scored 25, you're still more dominant than I am, according to this. Nonetheless, where the quiz tells N to practice more kissing, it tells P to get into more bondage and S&M roleplaying. ;p

[songcoyote.livejournal.com]

Huh. Perhaps I was a bit soft on some of my answers ;)

I suspect I'm slightly more "forceful" out here in the aether than I am in real life, though in person it really comes down to how people react to me and I to them. I'm perfectly happy submitting to someone who obviously enjoys being dommy and that I trust enough to give myself to; it's thrilling to make such an offer of myself. On the other hand, someone who gives obvious signals of... compliance does bring out my more predatory side :9

At this point in my life I'm probably a bit more toppy, but part of that has to do with the situations I'm in right now; more specifically, the lovers with which I'm involved tend more towards submissive, and in the particular "flavors" I like, so I run with it.

I wonder how much that affects the rest of my life? An interesting thought, and one I might have to consider.

Maybe when I'm done with my kissing practice.

Light and laughter,
SongCoyote

[altivo.livejournal.com]

*eats a peppermint and invites you to practice on him* ;p

[songcoyote.livejournal.com]

Mmmm...

I'll start slowly, to learn the shape of your lips and the best spots to lick. Then I'd tug gently on your lips with mine and start teasing the edge with the tip of my tongue....

Whoo... I could go farther with this, but I seem to remember you preferring that this sort of thing be more private. So... I'll just say again, "Yes, please!" and leave the rest for later :)

Light and laughter,
SongCoyote

[goldenstallion.livejournal.com]

Dear Rider,

My best idea of a sexual theme involving you has more to do with lying on the grass under the sunshine and talking with gentle good-nature than anything perverted or strange in spite I am about as weird as it gets, in 'that' regard.

Just our relationship I suppose and still I know you 'could' go for more, circumstances allowing.

Grin and giggle.

Imperator

[altivo.livejournal.com]

I could go into great reams of explanation of why that is, but it boils down to my doing I'm sure. Still, lying in the grass under sunshine or stars does fit my definition of a good time. :)

[heavens-steed.livejournal.com]

Wow, you sound pretty amazing, love. How accurate do you think it was in describing you?

I plan on taking the test, but I probably will not post the results. I think it's pretty silly since I have very little experience and I don't think anyone would really care anyway :)

[altivo.livejournal.com]

Actually, it seems that nearly everyone on my friends list who has taken this one came out an "N". One or two got "P", one got "O", and there was an "A" and a "J" I think. So either "N" is the common rating or I gravitate to that clique.

It's fairly accurate, though I don't think in terms of "kinkiness". Even the monogamy thing isn't too far off. While I practice monogamy because it makes sense and works, and keeps things simpler by far, I'm not naturally inclined to absolute monogamy. The trouble with polyamory is that it gets very intense and complex, and can be downright risky to established relationships. The more people you involve, the complexity grows exponentially. I might fantasize about such things, but I'm too lazy and have far too many other important interests to be able to deal with that.